As the end of life nears, our bodies start to show certain signs that may seem unfamiliar, but they’re all part of a natural process. While it can be emotionally challenging, understanding these changes can help you better support your loved one and ensure they’re as comfortable as possible during their final moments.
First, according to the NHS, it’s common for a person nearing the end of life to experience increased sleepiness and drowsiness.
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Their energy levels are significantly lower, and they’ll likely spend a lot of time resting. While this might seem alarming, think of it like their body hitting the snooze button over and over, using rest to conserve energy for what’s ahead. Just make sure they’re cozy and comfortable.
You might notice they’re not as hungry or thirsty. Their body simply doesn’t need as much fuel at this point.
Embed from Getty ImagesSmall sips of water and lip balm can help with comfort, but there’s no need to push food — less appetite is a completely normal part of this process.
Breathing may also get a little unusual. You might hear some deep breaths followed by shallow ones or even a rattling sound.
Embed from Getty ImagesIt can be startling, but adjusting their position may help them breathe easier and feel more comfortable.
As blood circulation decreases, you’ll likely notice that your loved one’s extremities — hands, feet, and legs — become cold to the touch and may even turn pale or show mottled blue or purple patches.
Embed from Getty ImagesThis is due to the blood concentrating on vital organs. Wrapping them in a warm, soft blanket can bring comfort — even if they don’t feel cold, it’s a way to help them feel cared for in their final days.
Muscle weakness is another common sign. Tasks like holding a cup or changing their sleeping position become much more challenging.
Embed from Getty ImagesOffering gentle support, whether it’s helping them take a sip of water or turning them in bed, can go a long way.
Confusion and hallucinations can occur, often caused by chemical changes in the brain. Your loved one may see or hear things that aren’t there, which can be distressing for both of you.
Embed from Getty ImagesThe key here is to remain calm and softly reassure them.
Bowel movements and urination will naturally decrease as the body slows down its intake of food and liquids.
Embed from Getty ImagesWhile this might be difficult to witness, it’s expected. If they lose control over their bodily functions, a caregiver can help keep them clean and comfortable, so you’re not left handling it alone.
As their energy fades, you may notice your loved one becomes more reclusive as they isolate themselves from friends. It’s common for people at this stage to sleep more and socialize less.
Embed from Getty ImagesBrief, quiet visits or just sitting by their side can keep them comfortable.
Finally, changes in vital signs like blood pressure, pulse, and heart rate often signal that the body is nearing its end. You might notice their heartbeat becoming faint, rapid, or irregular, and their pulse could be harder to detect.
Embed from Getty ImagesThese signs point to the final stages of life as the body gradually shuts down.
Last Updated on October 1, 2024 by Sarah Kester
