Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of friendship, betrayal, and surprise family vacations that’ll make your head spin! Meet our cast: a tight-knit group of gal pals who love their yearly getaways… well, except for Amy, who’s married with a kid. Things take a wild turn when Amy starts crashing the party with her fam, turning the girls into reluctant babysitters! Tensions rise, words are exchanged, and now our protagonist is wondering… AITA? Let’s dive in and find out! ?♀?
Yearly Girls’ Getaway Tradition

Surprise! Amy’s Family Crashes the Party

Free Babysitting Duties for the Girls

No Husbands Allowed! Amy’s Sneaky Surprise

Babysitting Round 2: Electric Boogaloo

Friends Decide to Let It Go… For Now

2020: The Year of No Vacations

OP’s Sassy Response to Amy’s Vacation Query

Amy’s Teary-Eyed Meltdown

Financial Woes and Cheaper Group Vacations

? Friends Divided: Sympathy vs. Reality Check

OP Called an A****e for Speaking the Truth

?♀? OP’s Dilemma: AITA?

Girls’ Trip Gone Wrong: Amy’s Family Takeover!
Well, well, well… looks like Amy’s been pulling some sneaky moves on her girls’ trips! ??♀? Showing up with her hubby and kid in tow, turning her friends into unpaid babysitters… not cool, Amy! Our protagonist finally had enough and dropped a sassy truth bomb , causing quite the stir among the group. Some sided with Amy’s financial woes , while others thought she needed a reality check. Now, the question remains: is our protagonist an a****e for speaking her mind? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this spicy situation! ? ?
Friend ignores ‘girls only’ rule, brings husband and kid for free babysitting. NTA.

NTA. Amy needs friends with kids. No crashing girls’ trips

Don’t let Amy ruin your trip with her selfishness
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NTA. Group trip is cheaper for her without childcare. Adjust plans.
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Friend violates girls’ trip boundary, expects free babysitting. NTA.

Friendship abuse drifting apart due to couples vs singles?

Shady, entitled ‘friend’ ambushes girls’ trip with unwanted guests and duties

Friend brings husband on girls’ trip despite clear boundaries. NTA.

Setting boundaries on a girls trip – NTA

Having a guy and baby in the group changes dynamics, NTA.

Girl’s trip drama: NTA for leaving husband behind

She’s not going on a girls’ trip, it’s a couples vacation

NTA calls Amy manipulative and suggests refusing to babysit
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NTA: Amy’s shameless behavior ruins girls’ trip ?♀?

Enabling friend’s behavior on previous trips led to entitlement. NTA.

Unwanted husband ruins girls’ trip, bullies for babysitting. NTA.

Friend brings entire family on girls’ trip despite agreement. NTA.

Resistant to BS babysitting. How does she force you?

NTA. Setting boundaries is important, friends should have supported you

Friend brings husband and kids on girls’ trip, expects free babysitting. NTA.

Friend prioritizes herself over the group – NTA wins

Amy’s entitled behavior ruins girls’ trip. NTA.
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Friend’s selfishness and manipulation lead to unanimous ‘NTA’ verdict.

Friend ignores boundaries on girls’ trip, not a true friend ?♀?

Bringing uninvited guests to plans is a d**kish move. NTA

Direct communication is key to a successful girls’ trip

Friend disregards group boundaries and trust, NTA for setting limits

Being blunt may be seen as being an a**hole but she is being an a**hole by bringing her husband and kid and then pawning off the kid on everyone else. FTS!

Curious commenter questions the cost of uninvited guest

NTA. Her financial situation is not the group’s problem

Cutting off selfish friends for a drama-free girls’ trip

Gate-cutting Amy from girls’ trips for prioritizing husband. NTA

NTA, friend is a user and not a victim

Friend brings husband on girls’ trip, comment suggests alternative options.

No more free babysitting & vacation for entitled friend ?

Friend brings husband and kid on girls’ trip, ignores rules. NTA.

User points out entitled behavior, declares NTA (not the a****e)

Friend taking advantage of discount and free babysitting, NTA.

NTA. Keep plans secret. Don’t let her use you for babysitting

Friend ignores ‘no husbands’ rule twice, free babysitting expected. NTA.

Suggesting a child-free vacation option. NTA

NTA comment: Friend brings husband on girls’ trip, disrespects boundaries.

Amy repeatedly disregarded boundaries and used friends as babysitters. ?♀?

Amy’s manipulative behavior causes a rift among friends

Friend surprises girls’ trip with husband and baby, NTA calls out selfishness.

Friend’s sneaky move on girls’ trip called out. NTA wins.

NTA and a potential codependency issue with her husband

Serious talk needed to plan girls’ trip without Amy’s husband

Bringing a kid on a girls’ trip? NTA for being annoyed

Friend’s inconsiderate behavior ruins girls’ trip – NTA

NTA! Her husband and kids should not intrude a girls trip

Set boundaries with love and creativity, keep the girls’ trip peen-free

Friend brings husband on girls’ trip, commenter says she’s self-centered

Friend brings family on girls’ trip despite being told no. NTA.

Shared trips should be enjoyable for everyone, not just one person. NTA!

No husbands allowed, but she brought him anyway! NTA

Friend repeatedly disrespected girls-only trip, no sympathy for tears
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Bringing a surprise family on a girls’ trip? NTA delivers reality check

NTA! You spoke up for everyone and said the truth

Marriage and kids may mean some things change

Friend’s entitlement to bring family on vacation sparks backlash.
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No husbands allowed, no babysitting expected. Smug attitude not welcome.

Friend brings husband despite group’s wishes twice – NTA

Friendship is a two-way street, not a one-way ticket

NTA comment shuts down excuses for bringing uninvited husband.

NTA – Friend invites husband despite clear instructions

Vacation babysitting: NTA’s friends agreed but regrets it now

Last Updated on April 20, 2024 by Diply Social Team