The wedding day is supposed to be one of the happiest days of a person’s life. But for this 25-year-old bride, her wedding day was filled with drama and conflict when her estranged stepmother showed up uninvited. The bride’s father had brought her stepmom as his plus-one without her knowledge, and she had to make a tough decision. Let’s dive into the story and see what happened.
The Background Story

Split Custody and Stepmom Issues

Sibling Dynamics and Jealousy

Brenda’s Mean Comments

Weight and Appearance Critiques

Car Privileges and Sibling Favoritism

Fast Forward: The Wedding Day

Surprise! Uninvited Stepmom Appears

Taking Matters into Her Own Hands ?♀?

Dad’s Angry Reaction

The Apology Dilemma

To Apologize or Not to Apologize?
So, the bride is now left with a difficult decision: should she apologize to her stepmother for the sake of her relationship with her dad, or should she stand her ground and refuse to apologize for kicking out an uninvited guest from her wedding? It’s a tough call, but let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ?♀?
OP may be TA for not informing dad about uninvited stepmom ?♀?
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/43e72ac0-1d9e-42a3-9b76-f52650fc22ac.png)
OP may be the a**hole for not clearly stating no stepmom

Uninvited stepmom drama – YTA if dad wasn’t informed

User calls out bride for kicking out uninvited stepmom. YTA.

Bride receives YTA judgement for kicking out uninvited stepmom

Bride criticized for not explicitly disinviting stepmom from wedding. YTA.

Inviting dad but not stepmom, then kicking her out? YTA

Clarification needed on stepmom’s invitation status

Bride is called out for kicking out stepmom from wedding

Stepmom uninvited from wedding, YTA according to comment.

Inviting half of a couple is an a**hole move ?♀?

Uninvited stepmom gets kicked out of wedding, YTA verdict given.

Uninvited stepmom drama at wedding, commenter calls out bride’s behavior.

Bride called out for kicking out uninvited stepmom from wedding

Uninvited stepmom drama leads to destroyed father-daughter relationship

Uninvited stepmom drama: Commenter calls out bride’s immaturity

Wedding drama: Bride excludes stepmom, but dad brings her as ‘plus one’

Uninvited stepmom drama at wedding, commenter blames bride. YTA verdict.

Communication is key! YTA for not explaining the situation.

Wedding drama: YTA if you didn’t give +1, NTA if uninvited.

Avoiding wedding drama: Communication is key

Wedding drama! Commenter calls out bride for humiliating stepmom.

Dad brought uninvited stepmom to wedding, who’s at fault?

User calls out bride for being unreasonable and immature

Uninvited stepmom brings plus one, bride kicks her out. Commenter thinks bride is the a**hole for not explicitly uninviting her stepmom and for potentially hiding her dislike for her from her father.

Wedding drama: Commenter calls out bride for not communicating clearly.

Uninvited stepmom drama – unclear invite leads to YTA judgement

Wedding guest calls out bride for humiliating uninvited stepmom
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/c70fcae1-0c10-437c-9331-6c6f021c8bba.png)
Uninvited stepmom drama at wedding – YTA or not?

Wedding etiquette debate: +1 invite and uninvited stepmom drama. ESH.

OP is the a**hole for not clarifying plus one policy.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/4e33056a-0339-4c4f-8cc2-3254703195e1.png)
YTA: Father acted within invitation, should have communicated better.

User calls out bride for being cruel to her father.

Wedding invite etiquette debated with YTA comment.

Uninvited stepmom causes drama at wedding, YTA according to comment.

Wedding etiquette and RSVPs discussed, NTA confirmed

YTA for not clarifying stepmom’s uninvitation before the wedding

Uninvited stepmom drama at wedding, YTA gets called out

Wedding drama: Commenter calls out bride for excluding stepmom

User calls out bride for being r**e to stepmom.

Redditor calls out bride for being TA for kicking out stepmom.

Sarcastic reply calls out the bride’s overreaction.

Wedding invite confusion leads to drama with stepmom

Wedding invite ambiguity leads to debate over YTA/NTA judgment.

User calls out bride for being TA and questions her motives.

A comment calls out the bride for being a deliberate j**k

Redditor calls out bride for kicking out uninvited stepmom. YTA.

User calls out bride for potentially purposefully embarrassing stepmom.

Uninvited stepmom thrown out of wedding, YTA for lack of communication.

User calls out bride for not addressing stepmom’s behavior earlier.

Wedding drama! Commenter thinks bride is TA for stepmom snub.

User defends the stepmom and calls out the bride’s behavior.

User calls out bride for unreasonable behavior towards stepmom.

User calls out bride for humiliating uninvited stepmom at wedding

Communicate clearly to avoid wedding drama

Bride criticized for kicking out uninvited stepmom from wedding

Fiery comment calls out bride’s disrespectful behavior at wedding.

User calls out bride for kicking out uninvited stepmom.

Stepmom uninvited from wedding, commenter calls out bride’s behavior

Wedding drama: Commenter calls out bride for being TA.

Uninvited stepmom shows up at wedding, bride kicks her out

Critical comment on bride’s behavior at wedding. YTA.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/53e8e838-6986-43ab-af6d-29465d9025b6.png)
Etiquette breach? Commenter disagrees with bride’s decision.

User calls out bride for not warning stepmom, recommends no contact.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/4d5b0a5e-64b6-4f61-8a8d-d5e2c87e30cd.png)
User calls out bride for not directly confronting stepmom.

Tough love advice on reconciling with father for wedding invitation.

Uninvited stepmom drama – commenter calls out bride’s behavior.

Wedding drama: Commenter calls out bride for humiliating stepmom.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/6cdc7461-5e51-4a44-b15e-45233f459c6a.png)
User accuses bride of being the a**hole for kicking out stepmom

User questions bride’s decision and offers nuanced opinion.

User suggests bride is TA for not explicitly disinviting stepmom.

Uninvited stepmom causes drama at wedding, YTA for assumption.

Bride kicks out stepmom from wedding, YTA according to commenter

Wedding etiquette debate: Should stepmom be invited? YTA verdict.

A comment accuses the bride of being malicious

Uninvited stepmom drama at wedding, YTA for poor communication

Last Updated on March 21, 2024 by Diply Social Team